Why is the unattainable so attractive?

I have never been the game player. Don’t really understand it. I have been told what to do by friends. “Don’t call him, let him call you….never tell him you like him….if you see him in a club and you really like him, ignore him….never be available….if he calls let your voicemail get it.”

Well….then….how is anything suppose to happen?

I do realize that it’s true. The more available you are the more men just really don’t want to see you. However, when you have other things to do it seems they all the sudden have an interest.

To me I think it means they really don’t like you in the first place, but if they see your interest going in a direction other than theirs…then they think…”wait a minute…”

I guess I’m a little disillusioned with the whole concept of boy meets girl…

Then again….I’m disillusioned with a lot of shit these days.